Raised Resilient: Help Your Highly Sensitive Child

Parenting is the hardest job ever – and parenting a highly sensitive child who’s struggling can feel downright impossible. If you’re suffering through endless meltdowns, walking on eggshells to avoid your child’s huge emotions, and losing sleep worrying that you’re failing your child, you’ve landed in the right place. I’m Dr. Hilary Mandzik – clinical psychologist, parenting specialist, and mom of 3. And I’m here to help you feel GOOD about parenting your highly sensitive child. Join me each week on the Raised Resilient podcast as we explore the topics parents worry about most when it comes to raising highly sensitive kids: managing meltdowns, building emotion regulation, understanding highly sensitive kids, making sense of challenging behaviors, building self-esteem, finding parenting strategies that actually work *with* your child’s sensitivity ... and everything in between. I’ll help you understand your child’s behavior (and your reactions to it!) so that even the really hard moments make more sense. I’ll empower you with tools, strategies, and scripts to navigate those really hard moments with connection and confidence. (And I’ll remind you that no tool, strategy, or script is as powerful as your parenting ace – your relationship with your child!) I’m passionate about parenting differently – parenting in a way that sees all kids as good, even when they’re struggling. I’m passionate about breaking unhelpful generational cycles and putting a hard stop to spanking, time outs, shaming, and yelling. I’m passionate about helping highly sensitive kids build the skills they need in order to manage their big emotions successfully ... and parents learning to regulate their own emotions alongside their children. I want to help you stop worrying about whether you’re “raising them right” and feel confident that your kids will grow up trusting themselves and feeling comfortable in their skin … because they were raised resilient. And that’s big. Because raising our kids resilient can literally make this world a better place. Listen, parenting is hard no matter how you do it. You won’t “enjoy every moment”, no matter what that lady at the store says. But I’m here to help you go from just barely surviving to parenting in a way that genuinely feels good, for you and your highly sensitive child. So warm up your coffee and grab your ear buds. It’s time to turn your child’s sensitivity into their SUPERPOWER! Connect with me: https://www.raisedresilient.com/ IG: @raisedresilient Schedule your FREE Breakthrough Session: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough Do YOU have a highly sensitive child? Take my FREE QUIZ to find out: https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz Major themes: parenting highly sensitive / deeply feeling kids; cycle breaking; building emotion regulation; generational healing; respectful parenting; gentle parenting; peaceful parenting; attachment theory / building a secure attachment

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Episodes

Friday Sep 27, 2024

Ever worry about taking your sensitive kids out, knowing a meltdown might be right around the corner? In this episode, I’m sharing a recent experience from a family dinner that didn’t go quite as planned. With my 3.5-year-old having had a long day and pushing past her usual bedtime, I knew it could be a challenge.
But with the right mindset and a little teamwork, we made it through by taking turns stepping up with her when things got hard. It wasn’t easy, but going into the situation with realistic expectations helped us stay calm and connected as a family.
Join me as I reflect on how we managed the evening, what helped us keep our cool, and how these small moments can be opportunities for growth, both for our kids and us as parents.
FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
NEW Guide: Mastering Meltdowns: https://www.raisedresilient.com/meltdowns 
FREE Guide: 10 Things Your Highly Sensitive Child Needs You to Know: https://www.raisedresilient.com/10things
Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset

Wednesday Sep 25, 2024

In today’s episode, the focus is on a topic that’s on so many parents’ minds: how to raise resilient, sensitive kids without fostering entitlement. With all the buzz about kids today being “too entitled,” this conversation challenges that narrative and offers a fresh perspective. The episode explores why emotional expression doesn’t equal entitlement, and how building resilience is key to helping kids thrive.
You’ll hear 5 practical tips for avoiding entitlement while still allowing children to feel and express their big emotions. These tips are simple shifts parents can make to raise kids who are confident, grounded, and able to handle life’s ups and downs without feeling entitled to special treatment.
If you’ve ever worried about finding the balance between nurturing your sensitive child and avoiding entitlement, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn how to foster true resilience, not just in your child but in your parenting approach too!
FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
NEW Guide: Mastering Meltdowns: https://www.raisedresilient.com/meltdowns 
FREE Guide: 10 Things Your Highly Sensitive Child Needs You to Know: https://www.raisedresilient.com/10things
Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset

Friday Sep 20, 2024

In this Parenting Reflections episode, I share a surprising moment from my son’s soccer practice that led to a powerful parenting lesson. What started as an ordinary practice turned into a deeper conversation about what it means to be a good coach, and how we can better support our kids when they face challenges.
This experience highlighted the importance of validation, compassion, and positive reinforcement in parenting. It was a reminder that moments like these are key to raising confident, resilient kids.
Join me as I break down this eye-opening moment and explore how we can foster self-compassion and positive growth in our children.
FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
NEW Guide: Mastering Meltdowns: https://www.raisedresilient.com/meltdowns 
FREE Guide: 10 Things Your Highly Sensitive Child Needs You to Know: https://www.raisedresilient.com/10things
Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset

Wednesday Sep 18, 2024

Mornings can be especially tough when it comes to school drop-offs, particularly for sensitive kids. In this episode, I’m sharing 3 tips to help make those drop-offs smoother, from preparing your child ahead of time to adjusting your own mindset and energy when you arrive. A calm, confident parent can make all the difference for a child struggling to separate.
Sensitive kids feel emotions deeply, and their strong attachment to a parent can make it even harder to say goodbye. This episode breaks down why that happens and what you can do to support your child through it.
With the right approach, school drop-offs don’t have to be so stressful. Tune in to hear strategies that can help both you and your child feel more at ease when it’s time to part ways.
FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
NEW Guide: Mastering Meltdowns: https://www.raisedresilient.com/meltdowns 
FREE Guide: 10 Things Your Highly Sensitive Child Needs You to Know: https://www.raisedresilient.com/10things
Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset 

Friday Sep 13, 2024

This week, I’m switching things up a bit and taking you behind the scenes of a typical day in my life. From the moment I wake up to the time my head hits the pillow, I’ll walk you through how I manage all the demands of parenthood, work, and life – and, spoiler alert, it’s not about spending hours on the floor playing with my kids.
Instead of the pressure to be constantly entertaining or engaging them, I’ve discovered something powerful: It’s not about the amount of time we spend, but the quality of those moments. I carve out intentional, meaningful connections that make me feel closer to my kids than ever, without having to be “on” all day long.
This episode is a reminder that true connection doesn’t require endless hours of play, but rather intentional moments that build strong bonds. If you’re feeling the pressure to do it all, this episode might just give you the permission to let that go.
FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
NEW Guide: Mastering Meltdowns: https://www.raisedresilient.com/meltdowns 
FREE Guide: 10 Things Your Highly Sensitive Child Needs You to Know: https://www.raisedresilient.com/10things
Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset

Wednesday Sep 11, 2024

In the second half of this insightful interview, the focus shifts to the heart of parenting and teaching. Discover ways to foster independence in kids with their schoolwork—encouraging it and handling challenges when they arise.
The discussion also covers the ever-debated topic of homework, offering perspectives on assignments and what truly supports a child's learning journey. Additionally, listen for practical advice on recognizing when a child might need extra support, like an IEP or 504 plan.
This episode wraps up the conversation with one of my favorite veteran teachers, leaving you with actionable takeaways to help your child thrive this school year!
FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
NEW Guide: Mastering Meltdowns: https://www.raisedresilient.com/meltdowns 
FREE Guide: 10 Things Your Highly Sensitive Child Needs You to Know: https://www.raisedresilient.com/10things
Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset 

Friday Sep 06, 2024

Today I’m opening up about something that’s been weighing on me: the pressure to focus on academics at home. So many of us feel like we have to constantly teach our kids—whether it’s reading, letter sounds, or math—but I’ve learned that sometimes it’s okay to let that go, especially when it leads to resistance.
I’ve personally felt how tough it can be when kids push back on learning at home. Instead of forcing it, I made the choice to step back. Letting go of that pressure has been a relief for both of us, allowing space for connection rather than conflict.
Because here’s the thing: play is the real building block for learning and bonding with our kids, and it’s often overlooked. In this episode, I share how this shift has been a game-changer for me as a parent and has strengthened my relationship with my child in ways that an academic focus just couldn’t.
FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
NEW Guide: Mastering Meltdowns: https://www.raisedresilient.com/meltdowns 
FREE Guide: 10 Things Your Highly Sensitive Child Needs You to Know: https://www.raisedresilient.com/10things
Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset 

Wednesday Sep 04, 2024

In this episode, I sit down with one of my closest, long-time friends, a dedicated teacher with 23 years of experience across almost every grade level. Together, we dive into the importance of building strong connections early in the school year between parents and teachers. She shares her unique insights, not just as an educator, but also as a parent to two elementary-aged children.
From an open discussion on parenting a child with ADHD to insights on how teachers manage tough situations, this conversation covers all the key topics you’ve been curious about. Whether you’re raising a highly sensitive child or simply aiming to kick off the school year smoothly, there’s something valuable in this episode for you.
And this is just the beginning! This conversation is so rich that we’re splitting it into two parts. So, tune in now for the first half, and be sure to come back next week for the rest of our discussion!
FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
NEW Guide: Mastering Meltdowns: https://www.raisedresilient.com/meltdowns 
FREE Guide: 10 Things Your Highly Sensitive Child Needs You to Know: https://www.raisedresilient.com/10things
Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset

Friday Aug 30, 2024

In this episode, you’ll meet Amanda, a Chaos to Connection program client. She shares her powerful journey through the program, offering an honest look at the challenges of parenting a highly sensitive child. She opens up about her experience with her oldest child, who often struggled with big emotions that led to hitting and meltdowns.
But it wasn’t just her child who needed support—Amanda also recognized the importance of managing her own emotions. Through the program, she found practical strategies to stay calm and connected, even in the toughest moments.
This conversation is filled with real-life insights and relatable moments that every parent of a sensitive child will appreciate. Tune in to hear how Amanda turned chaos into calm, and if you are struggling, book a free breakthrough call to see how these tools can transform your parenting journey too.
FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
NEW Guide: Mastering Meltdowns: https://www.raisedresilient.com/meltdowns 
FREE Guide: 10 Things Your Highly Sensitive Child Needs You to Know: https://www.raisedresilient.com/10things
Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset 

Wednesday Aug 28, 2024

Mornings with sensitive kids can be tough, especially when the clock is ticking, and everyone needs to be out the door. In this episode, we’re tackling a listener’s question about handling those challenging school mornings. With 5 practical tips, plus a bonus strategy, you’ll find ways to be present with your child, allowing them to express their big feelings while still getting them ready on time.
These tips are all about finding balance—helping your child navigate their emotions without letting the morning chaos take over. From creating a calm routine to setting clear expectations, these strategies will help make mornings smoother for everyone.
So if school mornings have been a struggle in the past, this episode is here to offer support and solutions to help start the day on a positive note. Tune in to learn how to create a morning routine that works for you and your sensitive child.
FREE Breakthrough Call: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough
Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? Take My FREE Quiz! https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz
NEW Guide: Mastering Meltdowns: https://www.raisedresilient.com/meltdowns 
FREE Guide: 10 Things Your Highly Sensitive Child Needs You to Know: https://www.raisedresilient.com/10things
Join Our Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisedresilient
FREE Mindset Shifts: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset

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